It said a number of other choice things about being surprised that I should want to be on my own given my bad self-image

Hmm... now, why does that remind me of Jason...?

asked for a quote for a standard 'hostile' divorce involving no blame

I can understand the feeling of not wanting to get involved in a fight when you feel your energy is low. The other thing you could do, of course, is to invite him over for a "reconciliation" - then have me and a few others reconcile the bastard using baseball bats.

Just a thought. :)

*huggles*